Reaction times maters a lot, but for playing for fun it does not. it pretty hopeless to play against young ones, just need to adapt own play so reaction times maters less and maybe make game more fun to play not just constant loss of lives. About that ignoring I fully understand that, I had been ignored last years while before I tryed to greet people when joining server, well I stopped getting any response so I stopped greeting and just do things as member and play team play and try to enjoy games. Age give also bit different view of things and importance.