Thanks. Trying to see if you have good connection to US server. If yes, then I suggest playing on jay2 or NQ #2.
You can ask 500 players but at the end of the day, if your ISP has lag itself, their is nothing you would be able to do.
Question is: Does your ISP lags or your router or your BW? Are you downloading anything while playing? Remember watching youtube while playing causes lag too. So if your family member are using line at the time of your playing, you will have issues.
You need to have stable latency mate.