@Joku - the fact it only happens on one server doesn't necessarily mean theres a problem with the server - it simply means that your connection to the server is probably getting bottlenecked at one of the connection points along the way - could be a server issue, or it could be your ISP's routing.. WinMTR is the only way to find out
Let me clarify a little bit maybe I can explain myself better. I am not suggesting it's your server, I am suggesting there is something wrong with all the servers that are running silent mod as I said originally. So forth, I am suggesting there might be something wrong with silent mod coding that reveals itself in certain situations.
By saying that I got increased ping in close combat and that I got some unstability in my connection I tried to give values or better said examples what is needed for this/ these coding defects to manifest, atleast in my case. By asking if someone else with these same problems has found a way to make them easier I tried to point out that there are others that feel the same. So forth, it is a question of finding common nominators that make this/ these coding defects appear. In my case, it gets worse the more players there are, close combat, and unstability in the connection.
As my original explanation gives out I am not a coder, so forth, it's hard for me to explain this/ myself adequatly in this situation. The fact just is: I've played this game for seven years and I feel and know there is something wrong when I play on servers that are running silent mod, which manifests itself most clearly on close combat situations. Of course, it might just be that it is a config, not coding, problem that certain values that help your game play on jaymod are not good or maybe even make this lag appear worse on silent mod. That all said, when I got time, maybe even tonight, I'll start testing different autoexes on servers that are running silent mod. Maybe I can make the lag disappear or atleast reduce it, as I was hoping for in the original post.
Yours sincerely Am Joku_.